This one for you

Few simple thoughts to think about

Belief : She'll never be satisfied

Truth : Women always look forward to make things better. Don't take their suggestions as complaints or criticism, but as her desire to make the relationship or the situation, the best it can be.

Belief : A strong, confident woman does not need a man to take care of her

Truth : Everyone loves to be taken care of and to feel needed. Even if a woman can fix things around the house or change the oil in her car, she will still ask you for help so that she can feel your strength, support and protection.  Don't ever stop asking - "What can I do for you ?". Because it shows her that you care for her and will always be there when she needs you.

Belief : Women only want to control men

Truth : Its not about control. Its about love. When a woman sees a man hurting, struggling or overwhelmed, her goal is to help, not control. Let her give you a helping hand.

Belief : Keeping a woman requires a lot of hard work, time and money

Truth : A serious relationship requires time and effort to cultivate it. You should not look at it as a burden. Your wife or girlfriend will reciprocate the effort you put into it.

Belief : You can not lie to a woman.

Truth : Woman are extremely capable of picking up moods and attitudes and can very easily read body language and facial expressions.  Although you may think you have gotten away with a great lie. She is either letting it slide because she wants to keep peace, or she is lying to herself because she is afraid of the truth.

Belief : Jealousy and possessiveness are a part of being woman

Truth : Women are protective of what belongs to them. They protect the things they value, especially when it comes to relationship. Its not that she does not trusts you; she is just guarding the relationship. You are too precious to her for her to allow any bad thing to happen to you.

Belief : Women are emotional

Truth : Women do not hide their feelings. They articulate what is going in their mind. There is nothing wrong with emotions.  We all have them in us. Being in touch with emotions causes women to be sensitive and caring and that why men love them.

P.S. : This one is dedicated to the most complex, complicated, confused, cryptic species I will ever know in my life, THE FEMALE SPECIES. Yes this one is for you. Just for you.

Understanding women

A man walking along a California beach was deep in prayer. All of a
sudden, he said out loud, "Lord grant me one wish." Suddenly the sky
clouded above his head and in a booming voice the Lord said, "Because
you have TRIED to be faithful to me in all ways, I will grant you
one wish."

The man said, "Build a bridge to Hawaii, so I can drive over anytime
I want."

The Lord said, "Your request is very materialistic. Think of the
enormous challenges for that kind of undertaking. The supports required
to reach the bottom of the Pacific! The concrete and steel it would
take! I can do it, but it is hard for me to justify your desire for
worldly things. Take a little more time and think of another wish,
a wish you think would honor and glorify me."

The man thought about it for a long time. Finally he said, "Lord, I
wish that I could understand women. I want to know how they feel inside,
what they are thinking when they give me the silent treatment, why
they cry, what they mean when they say 'nothing', and how I can
make a woman truly happy."

The Lord replied, "You want single or double lane on that bridge?"