Love Transpired

A couple of smokes

and JD on rocks

The air is benign

and clock strikes 9

Baby you are gone

and my heart still moans

But that's alright

coz you're just fine

Baby you're just fine

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Perspicuous

Relationships are complicated.

Love is not.

Love is....

If ever I will not be able to justify what I get; I will quit.

But until then, I'll look into your eyes and say "I am worth it"

Wordless Wednesday - 4

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Jannat abhi door sahi...

Baagh-e-bahisth se mujhe hukm-e-safar diya tha kyun

Kaar-e-jahaan daraaz hai, ab mera intezaar kar

Iqbal

Love Her

Love her when she sips on your coffee, she only wants to make sure it tastes just right for you.

Love her when she is jealous.out of all the guys she can have, she choose you.

Love her when she has annoying habits that drive you nuts, you have them too.

Love her when her cooking is bad, she tries for you.

Love her when she makes you watch corny love dramas while the sport is on, she wants to share these moments with you.

Love her when she spends hours to get ready, she only wants to look her best with you.

Love her when often her eyes water suddenly, she actually had a thought of loosing you.

Take time to make her feel special.

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The Story of Love

Once upon a time, there was an island where all the feeling lived; Happiness, Sadness, Knowledge, and all others including Love. One day it was announced to all the feelings that the island was going to sink to the bottom of the ocean. So all the feelings prepared their boats to leave. Love was the only one  that stayed.  She wanted to preserve the island until the last possible moment.

When the island was almost under, Love decided it was time to leave. She began looking for someone to ask for help. Just then Richness was passing by in a grand boat. Love asked, "Richness, can I come with you on your boat?" Richness answered, "I'm sorry, but there is a lot of gold and silver on my boat and there would be no room for you." Then Love decided to ask Vanity for help who was passing by in a beautiful vessel. Love cried out, "Vanity, help me please." "I can't help you", Vanity said, "You are all wet and will damage my beautiful boat." Next, Love saw Sadness passing by. Love said, "Sadness, please let me go with you." Sadness answered, "Love, I'm sorry, but, I just need to be alone now." Then, Love saw Happiness. Love cried out, "Happiness, please take me with you." But Happiness was so overjoyed that he didn't hear Love calling to him.


Love began to cry. Then, she heard a voice say, "Come Love, I'll take you with me." It was an elder. Love felt so blessed and overjoyed that she forgot to ask the elder his name. When they arrived on land, the elder went on his way. Love realized how much she owed the elder. Love then found Knowledge and asked, "Who was it, that helped me?" "It was Time", Knowledge answered. "But why did Time help me?", Love asked. Knowledge smiled and with deep wisdom and sincerely, answered, "Because only Time is capable of understanding how great Love is."



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Happy Valentines Day

On this Valentine’s Day, the day of affection,

My thoughts quickly turn only in your direction.

This lil Valentine poem is meant to show you

How lucky I feel, I've fallen in love with You

To be or not to be

I like you,
And I think you like me
If you didn't
Then why would you want us to be ?
In their eyes, You are unreachable.
But in my eyes, You are adorable.
I might fall out of bed, I might fall asleep
But when I fall in love, would you hold me and keep ?
Our little conversations,
Are turning into little sweet sensations.
Oh my God, is this true,
Can't believe Am I talking to you ?
We hardly know each other,
But every second is like forever.
And we think so similarly,
Don't you think its destiny ? Or co-incidences maybe ?
May be it'll work out,
May be it won't
Will time tell us
If this is possible or nowhere ?




P.S. : Sometimes we act less and expect more, while we need to act more and expect less

Just do it !!!

Be with the one who makes you happy
The one who makes you smile
The one who can make you laugh
And each day worth while
Live life for the moment
Try to make it last long
Because life is too short
It passes by so fast
So when you find love
Don't let it slip away
Hold it tight, close, forever
And cherish it each day
As long as you are happy
That is what you  should do
Love that someone and let them know
Before the life is through!!!

Life

Everybody wants happiness

Nobody wants pain

But you can't have a rainbow

Without little rain

The lonely walker

I wander through the loose mornings

so different from those spent together

which had so much of our absurd chats

I drift through the aimless afternoons

so different from those spent together

which had so much of our savoured lunches

I walk through the solitary evening

so differnet from those spent together

which had so much of chit-chat coffee breaks

I tramp through the lonely dusks

so different from those spent together

which had so much fun driving together

I roam through the empty pre-nights

so different from those spent together

which had so much of our naughtiness

I stroll through the sleepless nights

so different from those spent together

which had so much of our togetherness

I maunder through the dreamy dawns

so different from those spent together

which had so much of our shared dreams

And I wish I could turn back the time

again and again to relive those moments

दिवाना

I wonder if you'll look into my eyes; ever
And still find the love that prevailed between us

My eyes still lust for one look of yours
My hands rise in vain to touch you again
My lips long for the moisture of your kisses
My soul lurks for yours

Nothing more that I wish for
And you are nowhere around to love me; ever


दिवाना हँसता है तो हँसने दे यार
बेचारा तन्हाई में बैठ कर रोया बहुत है

Just wanted to add the last two irrelevant lines for me; and for you.

The confession

The worst part

of our separation

isn't that 

with each passing day

I feel like I need you more

but the fact

that

you don't need me at all

The Broken Bridge

I stand this side,

You stand the other side

Between us 

Lies this broken bridge...

Hurt again...

The dreams that once twinkled my eyes

now hurt more than just anything...

The songs that once amused my heart

now hurt more than just anything...

The moments that once sparkled my life

now hurt more than just anything...

The person that once enlightened my soul

now hurts more than just anything...

Am I with Right Partner ?

During a seminar, a woman asked, "How do I know if I am with the right person?" The author then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, "It depends. Is that your partner?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?" Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind replied the author. Here's the answer.

Every relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls, want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to do anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love.

People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet." Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU. Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It's a natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage. At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, "Am I with the right person?" And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when relationships breakdown.

The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the person you found.

People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfilment. Extramarital fulfilment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this): The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the person you found.


SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner). Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you know and apply these laws, the results are predictable. Love is therefore a "decision". Not just a feeling.

Remember this always:

God determines who walks into your life.

It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay,and who you refuse to let GO!!!

You are in love

"Love" is one word of which everybody is very very familiar. But do people actually understand before jumping on the conclusion that they are in love ? I am sure love is often misunderstood for attraction, infatuation, obsession,  fascination etc. And I do agree that these are the first steps toward being in love, the initial steps. But if you are on the right path( highly dependent on your fate ), these misunderstanding gets converted to the most awaited, irresistible emotion, LOVE.

So here I mention a few points which may indicate that the person you have found is in love with you as much as you are in love with him/her.

1. You are absolutely comfortable with each other and feel you have known each other since long, even if your courtship period is small one.
2. You generally agree to each other.
3. You treat each other with equality and the fact never arises that who has compromised more.
4. You get involved with each other in every big or small activities, even of daily life.
5. You go around kidding with each other, adding happiness and friendliness to the bonding.
6. You two give each other special treatment, more attention, mutual appreciations, acceptances, admiration and playfulness. This keeps the romance warm and alive.
7. You enjoy spending more time together in homely environment to feel 'at home' with each other.
8. You don't pretend and just be yourself. Similarly you let your partner be what he/she is. The expression of feelings is true and open.
9. There is a shared feeling of mutual growth and support. You both give each other space for inter-personal and individual growth.
10. You are able to work out with your problem with ease and objective approach.
11. You are flexible, compassionate, gracious and expect best from your partner.
12. Forgiving is not tough when things go out of way, and trusting each other keeps you closer.
13. You are protective(not obsessive or controlling) towards each other and like to keep your romantic lives in privacy.
14. Commitment and dedication exists to ensure that feeling of separation never creeps in between(luck plays a huge role here, believe me or not; I know because ....  ah ! don't bother me)
15. The sexual chemistry is apparent and tangible as well.
16. Expressing yourselves emotionally and sexually comes naturally and without inhibitions. Feeling secure with one another puts you in the “mood" for intimacy and strengthens your affections for one another.
17. You have the guts to take bigger risks or challenges since you can always count upon your partner.
18. There is a whole lot of positive energy generated between the tow of you, and together, you are enthusiastic about life.
19. The longer you're with each other, the stronger the relationship is growing.
20. Your relationship is so life-changing that you know without a doubt in your heart that if it were to end, you will take something from it. You feel that you are somehow a very different and much better person.

Other than the above mentionings, the signs below indicate you have already fallen for someone( though you may not have expressed it )

1. You feel restlessness as soon as he/she is out of sight.
2. You better prefer to be lonely than being in a circle which does not comprised of him/her.
3. You feel energetic, the world seem different. You get curious. You pass smile to everybody. You seem to be having all the nice gestures.
4. There is a change in your tone. Suddenly it becomes soft and sexy.
5. Even if you are the worst bathroom singer, you still hum love songs and love to listen to them.
6. You get conscious about your personality. You tend to be smarter, attractive, handsome/beautiful.
7. He/She grabs most of the time of you attention.
8. You try to find likes and dislikes of your love and try to gift them accordingly, very often.
9. You become restless, anxious, pessimistic following the failure in meeting your love, but feel complacence of co-operating him/her by controlling self.
10. Your love becomes the most unique in whole world. None other will  look more attractive and charming.
11. You share your personal information and secret and expect the same from the other one.
12. You leave no stone unturned in making the person believe that you are completely loyal and are ready to prove your loyalty in just any way.
13. You always smile when ever you think of that person.
14. You imagine yourself with your love in every thing that you see, read, listen, feel or just anything. You see him/her as an inseparable part of you.

Hey you; Yeah; I am not serious about anything that you have just read. My intention was absolutely not what you had thought when you read the title or first few lines of this post. If you had fun reading all these, good for you. If not, still, good for me.

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*P.S. : These points have been compiled from various sources.

live and die

I want to bury you

deep inside me

and run away

afar from myself

I want to die

and be reborn

so that I am fresh

with a virgin heart

And I will love you

all over again

Truth

I wish I knew how to win you

Rather I chose to embrace truth
Does this means I lose you ?